I've been really struggling for the last several months in a few of my personal relationships. I feel like I've gone from a (halfway) decent wife and mom to a complete failure. My house is a constant mess, I really like to order out more than I cook (I hate cooking) and I have to have an internal agrument with myself to get the housework done...and more often than not that tends to fall through.
The aspect of being a blessing can come in many forms. Sometimes it will be giving a kind word to someone. Other times it may be assisting someone in buying something-whether it be a meal or something that they are in need of...maybe driving someone home. Ask God to guide you and He will make it plain to you.
Many people, myself included, can have the habit of making assumptions of people based on their looks, their career, where they live and how they present themselves. With those assumptions often come biases on how we interact with those individuals.
My Everyday Hope 